ENCOUNTER WITH MR. NICE GUY
I was one of those ladies who at often times labelled all men as dogs after a good relationship gone bad. You couldn’t blame me, I was hurt then, but now I know better.My Mr Nice Guy was far from being a dog, he was a dark tall handsome angel sent from Heaven. Everything was going smooth, I was really having the time of my life.
I mean, can you imagine? I’m going to be called “MRS” pretty soon…Wow!
Who says small girls can’t have a big God huhn? I kept thinking to myself, smiling sheepishly. This was finally my moment, and I wasn’t going to blow it for anything. I started going shopping in preparation for my wedding which was not yet even fixed. Yeah, you could say I was forward, but my excitement wouldn’t make me take a chill pill.
I walked everywhere, flashing my ring, just to see my the look on my hater’s face. My Guy would always call to check on me, we hung out whenever he was free and the gifts kept pouring in
Oh! What a Guy! Everyday was a heavenly experience for me. I was now the real definition of a Baby Girl for Life. But then the unimaginable happened and this was the beginning of the END for me.
I Made A Huge Mistake!!!
Oh how could I have been this silly?
How could I make such a gross mistake that has cost me my relationship?
As a matter of fact, I have found out since then, that many other ladies are also guilty of this same mistake. I wasn’t alone on this one. But in my case, it hurt me so much because everything was going smooth with my wedding in view. How was I so careless to not have learnt from the experiences and mistakes of other ladies? Why did I have to be the one to pay for this mistake? Was it all my fault?
These and many more questions I kept asking myself as I cried on my pillow every night.
I was too in love and couldn’t see what lay ahead of me. I couldn’t see the signs early because i was blind. Now everything came crashing Boom! in my face. What was this mistake I made? You might probably be asking right now…
How are you sure you are not also making the same mistake in your present relationships?
(of a person or action) showing a lack of experience, wisdom, or judgement.“the rather naive young man had been totally misled”
This was just me in one word…Naive!
Hey! don’t laugh at me, atleast not yet. You haven’t read the rest of my story. Many ladies are also naive like I was then and my fear is that this would inadvertently lead to a heartbreak. Hence the need to put my story out there to prevent such heartbreaks from occurring. Most people are naive and gullible when in love.
80 out of 100 people would argue and deny this, but it’s simply the truth.Usually, there is an ideal kind of man we desire and paint in our imaginary dreams. So when Mr Nice Guy comes, we subconsciously put him through a little test in our mind to see if he is really genuine. After the test, we then conclude. This is where we get it all wrong because men know what you know now. And they act in accordance, just so they can pass your little silly test and have their way with you.
Mistake Number One
Guys are not fools anymore.
While you are trying to avoid the playboys among them, they are also getting more knowledge and devicing new plans on how to catch you and keep you just where they want you to be. These days, even fuckboys (boys who are only after your cookie jar) have now deviced mediums on how they can disguise and look like genuine guys. So this leads to my next question…How can a lady differentiate a fuckboy from a real guy?
How can you tell that your current guy is not actually a playboy, just interested in getting all he can get from you, with the aim of leaving you after? You see, This was my mistake…I was Naive. Not being able to differentiate a guy who wants to waste your time from a guy who is serious and wants to settle down and have a family with you is a major issue befalling many people.
A lot of people have ended up marrying a guy who masqueraded as a real guy, only to get into the marriage and realize that he was just pretending. A lot of ladies have stayed in a relationship with their guys for years with no hope of proposal in sight. My relationship with My Mr Nice Guy suffered from this same mistake because I was too naive to seat down and think through what I was doing or getting into.
How could I think? My Mr Nice Guy had alI the features I dreamt of and I needed the ring badly. Exactly the same mistakes many ladies have made that have cost them their marriage and relationships.
Little wonder statistics shows that the rate of divorce is almost doubling the rate of marriages on a yearly basis.
This statistics is increasing at an alarming rate. It shows that been married is not just the goal right now; staying married and happy while in it is. We have learnt to mask our sorrow, and hide it behind a wide smile. This shouldnt be. You shouldn’t go through what I went through. It musn’t always end in a heartbreak. We can have that guy of our dreams, having the best marriage and living happily, if we really desire to. But how many ladies today are willingly to pay the price?
Someone said, “If you want to hide an information, put it inside a book” And this is so true because these days, people hate to head. Everyone is stuck with their android phone that zaps a huge chunk of their daily time. What will you do, If you were told that you can prevent yourself from having heartbreaks?
How excited would you be, if you knew that all it took to preserve your relationship with your Mr Nice Guy has been put together in a book just for you.
Would you like to know how I was able to turn my mistake around and save my relationship with My man?
I probably haven’t told you that a dear friend of mine who had experienced a similar situation introduced me to a principle. A principle she used that got her married same year of her heartbreak. A principle that saved my relationship and has saved the relationships of many other ladies. God bless her immensely for me.
She came visiting one day after my break up and saw me sobbing. I narrated what happened, how I met him, how we became so close and how he proposed on my birthday. I also told her of my ordeal while dating him, at a point she burst out in laughter. I couldn’t understand what was funny about my break up story. She cut me in and told me of her own experience and how she was naive. That was when I came to a conclusion that I was also naive like she was and made the same mistake which I could have avoided if only I had been exposed to this principle.
Today everything has really turned around In my life.
I have taken time out to put these principles down in a book, just so you don’t make the mistake i made. This book is currently available and would help you enjoy your relationship and marriage. Take it from someone who has had a bitter experience that cost me my relationship.
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Bonus chapters have also been added just for you.
“How you can get your guy to propose in less than 3 months”
“How you can stay relevant to you guy and wade off competitions from other ladies”
“Tips on how you can easily spot fuckboys”